About the SorryWatchers

Susan McCarthy  (sumac) is the author of Becoming a Tiger: How Baby Animals Learn to Live in the Wild (HarperCollins) and co-author with Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson of When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals (Delacorte). A modest person, she seldom mentions that the latter book was an international bestseller.

Publications she’s written for include Discover, Guardian.co.uk, OutsideParade, Salon, Smithsonian, and Wired.

McCarthy wrote a piece for Salon on apologies (“How to Say You’re Sorry: A Refresher Course”) which has been lastingly popular, and which has encouraged her to think more about the matter.

McCarthy writes about animals on the blog The Nature of the Beast (According to Susan McCarthy)This combines observations about animals, humor, and sometimes drawings. Take a look. If you don’t like it, too bad. She’s not sorry. Except for herself.

McCarthy lives in San Francisco. A carbon-based life form, she is a native of Earth. “I love your sunsets,” she reports.

Marjorie Ingall (snarly) is a columnist for Tablet magazine. She has written for many other magazines and newspapers, including The New York TimesMs., Food & WineWiredSelf (where she’s been a contributing writer), Glamour (where she’s been a contributing editor), and Sassy (yes, that one), where she was at one time or other the senior writer, health editor and books editor, and won several awards for health and social issues coverage. She’s the author of Mamaleh Knows Best; the co-author of Hungry, written with the model Crystal Renn; the author of The Field Guide to North American Males; a contributor to Here Lies My Heart: Essays on Why We Marry, Why We Don’t, and What We Find There (Beacon); and the co-author of Smart Sex (Simon & Schuster), a now-retro guide for teenagers. She’s also a former writer/producer at the Oxygen TV network, where, in a meeting with Oprah, she saw Oprah’s giant diamond earring fall out of her ear, get entangled in her sweater and dangle temptingly above the conference room floor. Ingall considered leaping for it, plucking it from the angora and fleeing to pay off her mortgage, an impulse for which she does not apologize. At the end of a rousing and mesmerizing pep talk, Oprah (who had not given any indication that she had noticed the fallen earring) coolly picked up the earring and placed it back in her ear. This is why she is Oprah.

Here are various writings by Ingall that are more or less relevant to apology: “Teaching Kids to Apologize,” “Sorry, Again,” “I’m Sorry, So Sorry” (with SPECIAL GUEST APPEARANCE by Susan McCarthy!) and “Teaching Teshuva.”

McCarthy and Ingall can be reached at sorry at sorrywatch dot com.

 

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8 Responses to About the SorryWatchers

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  3. Stephanie Carleton says:

    I like your website about Sorry Watch. I hope someday I can better apologize. And give up waiting for apologies. Please notify me of new posts by email. I learned about you from Gretchen Rubin’s podcast

    • sumac says:

      Thank you, Stephanie! We’re planning a mailing list (for those who want to be on it), and would be delighted to add you.

      • max ruben says:

        I’m trully sorry to learn that you don’t yet have a mailing list, as soon as you sort out this sorry situation and after the inevitable apology email, could you please add me to your mailing list.

        Apologies in advance.

        Max

  4. Cynthia Clarke says:

    Your use of humour to share your insights and analyses is perfect!
    Thank you!
    P.S. I hope your frog is in good health!

    • sumac says:

      Thank you!

      (Frogs seldom respond to inquiries about their health. Their croaks are hard to translate: is that ‘Feel BAD! Feel BAD!’ or ‘Just FINE! Just FINE!’ or, more likely, ‘Seeks SAME! Seeks SAME!’?)

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